Keep quiet

I started this blog as a means to pour out my feelings without worrying about my own image because of my anonymous identity.
turns out my life is not as miserable - iam feeling much better these days, not that anything around me has changed dramatically, just that what I take to heart has changed - i understand I still have a long way to go, but nevertheless, this could be a good start.
A wise well-wisher once advised me philosophically about life when I told her about my family problems - she told me there is much more and all this will seem like a joke one day - it is already happening - it is funny grown up people can turn tables so easily and act like kids.
I just realised nothing is going to be lost by keeping quiet - no words spoken out of anger that were not meant, nothing said so someone gets hurt intentionally or unintentionally, leave the other person in dark about what you think, never feel bad yourself about having said something bad.
WOW - so many merits, but why it is so hard to shut up when one really needs to....